REFLECTION-3 LOVE LEARNING VS HATE LEARNING
REFLECTION 3 - LOVE LEARNING VERSUS HATE LEARNING
When an 18-year-old boy still remembers his kindergarten
teacher, who taught him in the school when he was just 3 years old, that is a love
learning. And the reason for this is the memory which is alive deep in
his heart. The boy can still cherish those old memories of him with his teacher
singing and enjoying the nursery rhymes being in her hands, moving round and
round and round in circles and dancing with his teacher “Beauty maa’am”. It is
not less than a miracle remembering the name of the teacher when the boy was
just 3 years old. So in one sentence I can say that love learning last
with the last breath of the life and it passes through generations and
generations.
It is true that I am
a teacher by chance but the interest of teaching is in my blood. This is what I
believe. I am a good teacher, no matter inside the school campus or outside the
school. Of course initially joining the job of a Teacher was my need but
gradually this need converted into interest and has become a part of My Life.
It is true that life cannot be led without money. To survive in this world and
to be alive we need money. Hence I also needed money and did this job. But I
started getting connected to my job deeply when I experienced the joy of this
job by receiving the sweet and loving reflections from my student. Teaching
in a school is a soulful job. Each and every day makes you feel alive. You
will experience ups and downs but when you will come before your students, you will
forget everything, all bad phases and tensions and you will get involved with
your children in a positive way. In this whole process if a teacher can touch
one single heart out of 40 students, teacher should understand that his work is
done well.
As a teacher I do not
focus on the negative parts of my job. Of course sometimes I get panic when I
am overloaded with work. But the next moment I calm myself, sit silently and
then I think that I will do my best whatever is the task assigned to me and even
if I fail in completing my work that is also a learning for me. I take my
work as a continuous learning process.
There is a famous saying that ‘everyone can't be Jack of all trait’. I
also can't be the Jack. But I can try at least. Personally I believe that
everyone should maintain a balance between a family life and a professional
life. We have our responsibilities and roles towards both. We cannot avoid any
of them. So things should be planned in such a way that it should not disturb
each other. I also believe in equal distribution of work in any system. Because
those who are good performer are over burdened with more and more work whereas
those who perform badly are for given front Work. Sometimes such things
disturbs the balance in the system as well as in personal life also. I also
want to say that system should analyze and provide equal opportunities to all
the employee. So that all will work with a happy framework of mind.
Now let's talk about
love learning and hate learning. A class full of 40 students includes 40
different personalities with different interest, IQ, hobbies, behaviors, values,
family backgrounds, society etc. Hence they all perform differently in their
assessments. It is usually being observed that children are weak in major
subjects which are based on concepts and this does not happen in 1 day or one
month or 1 year. Students get weak and year by year. Becoming weaker in any
subject may have numbers of reason. For example a child could be weak in math
or science because of not attending
classes regularly, being busy in co-curricular activities, or because of
dislike for the subject or subject teacher.
But the less marks does not decide child's wisdom or his potential. Also
there are different types of children for example some children learn under
pressure whereas some learn when they are happily ready to learn. So a teacher
must develop a rapport with these students. In the starting period teacher
should get some time to understand students mindset so that learning can be
done in a positive way. Until and unless a child is not connected with the
teacher, the subject being taught by the teacher will be difficult to be
understood by the child. Gradually student will develop fear or hesitation with
the subject teacher and hence stops asking questions. Day-by-day he/she will
keep on moving to the next topics with piled up doubts in their mind. That is
how they become weak and weaker day-by-day in the particular subject. Becoming
weaker in the subject ends up the interest in that subject. And the student
finds the particular subject boring and stops paying attention. Also try to run
away from that subject and ignores the subject teacher. Hence love learning can
only be done if the child is happily ready to learn.
In my opinion a
teacher should look presentable and approachable. Each student observes his or
her teacher minutely, a small talk by a teacher means a lot to the student, a
small encouragement done by the teacher can be a big effort in bringing change
and improvement in child's performance.. Once the child gets connected to the
teacher it means teacher has won the half battle. Because the child will put
his or her best effort in making the particular teacher happy, the child will
try not to leave chance of complaint, it will focus more and more. That is how
the child will start moving towards this step of Improvement.
BY – MOHINI RAI